The swingers lifestyle is all about having intimate relations with other partners outside of your primary relationship. This can include one outside party, a couple, or several people in a group sex situation.

However, at some point, swingers will typically face the question of whether they want to only do soft swaps or if they are planning to be one of the many full swap couples in the lifestyle.

What’s the difference, and which option is best for you? We’ll cover those questions here.

What is a Soft Swap and the Advantages of Participating “Softly”

Soft swap couples are common in partners who are relatively new in the swinging lifestyle. These encounters encompass a range of activities such as fondling, kissing and oral sex. However, soft swaps don’t involve any type of sexual penetration with the outside party.

There are a number of advantages of soft swapping. First, it helps newbies of the lifestyle get a feel of what the lifestyle is all about. It allows people to take it much slower and give people the chance to warm up with their new play partners. Another key perk of not having full-on sexual contact is that there is a decreased chance of jealousy in the relationship.

Some couples prefer soft swapping, as it maintains some boundaries between partners in the swinging lifestyle. As an entry level type of play, couples can evolve and eventually agree to exploring hard swaps. The only real disadvantage to soft swapping is that there is no intercourse with anyone other than partners.

Benefits of Full Swap Couples

A full swap is when penetration comes into play. This means having sex with someone that is not your main partner. Many couples are surprised to discover that they both share the fantasy of having full-on sex outside of their partnership. At this point, having full swaps isn’t a must, but it is an idea that should be put on the table and discussed.

The biggest benefit enjoyed by hard swap couple is SEX! Many are turned on by watching their partner get it on with someone else, whether it be male of female.

Either way, its best to play it safe by using condoms. Couples may also experience bouts of jealousy, especially if they feel like their partner is enjoying the sex with the outside party more than the do with their mate. Be sure to have a solid understanding and set certain ground rules to prevent these issues from spoiling a good time.

Soft or Hard Swap? The Choice is Yours!

Whether you and your partner feel more comfortable easing into sharing each other with like minded swingers or are ready to go all the way, the choice is yours. One partner may be ready while the other is not. Most importantly, don’t try to force full swaps on your significant other, and don’t even consider going there without having a deep conversation. After all, boundaries must be set firmly to avoid relationship conflicts.

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Swinger couples have voluntary agreed to step outside of their monogamous partnership when they choose to explore the lifestyle. While the opportunities for wild nights, great sex and the chance to meet new couples in the swingers lifestyle can be exciting there are just some emotions that can impede the good times ahead.

Let’s pull down the blindfold and take a peek at these tips for keeping those feelings in check when partner sharing.

How to Cope with Feelings of Neglect & Partner Fears

There might be incidences when one partner is enjoying the experience a little more than the other. This can leave one partner feeling neglected. These emotions of neglect can manifest if not addressed right away and have your partner believing that they may be replaced by the outside participant.

Keep in mind that you and your partner are in this together. Feelings of neglect should be discussed with open communication. Should this issue arise, swinger couples should have a serious talk to clarify their intentions, feelings, signs etc. and take action to make your partner feel more comfortable.

Remember, having a keen enjoyment of a third party or couple is the goal of swinging, and it’s unlikely that there is a plan on swapping one out permanently for a new playmate. If the issue persists, some may decide to take a temporary break from the lifestyle to work it out with conversations or a new set of “rules.”

The Curse of the Green Eyed Monster

Getting a bit jealous isn’t unusual—even for seasoned lifestyle couples. Either party can have feelings of envy, particularly if their mate seems to have a stronger connection with a playmate. To curb these feeling, consider that having chemistry with a play partner is not always a negative thing after all, the better the chemistry, the better the sex. Be mindful and make sure both partners share the same chemistry with playmate to combat any feeling of jealousy.

However, should you feel that this threatens you or your relationship, communication can help alleviate any trust issues—and they do happen sometimes in the swinging lifestyle. Before delving into the swingers lifestyle, contemplate how constructively you’d be able to talk to each other to address jealousy. There may be some actions you consider “off limits” until you get these feelings under control.

Coping with Emotions If One or Both Fall for Another Person

Ideally, both individuals in the relationship should share chemistry with your play partner. Should these feelings develop into a stronger connection, having a discussion about this with your partner is important and should be done as soon as you feel the relationship changing. Swinger couples bond are normally stronger than most and can sustain open and honest communication about any topic including whatever feelings you may start to develop.

There are many situations in which the primary partners are open to having a polyamorous relationship with the person or pair they’ve made a deep connection with. If thoughts of this come to fruition, be prepared for a wave of emotions. Just remember, that inviting someone to your bed on a temporary or part-time polyamorous agreement has challenges, so all parties should be a part of the conversation.

Stay in Check Emotionally

Remember, we are all humans and emotions can run wild when sex and chemistry are in play. The key is to not let those feelings get out of hand and affect your relationship in a negative way so it is important to check in from time to time with your partner to make sure they are still emotionally secured with the fun you are both having. Discuss before, during and after having playtime to talk out any feelings that you may be having. Both fears and excitement can be a con or a pro depending on how you handle them when they surface.

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A cuckquean is a wife or girlfriend of a husband/boyfriend(cuckold). These women get off on their partner watching them have sex with other men.

In some cases, husbands are able to please their wife and fetishize the cuckold lifestyle. Cuckqueans really love this lifestyle as couples can reap huge benefits from participating in this sub-sect of the swingers lifestyle.

Here are five perks that couples can anticipate.

1. Satisfy Each Other’s Fetishes

Cuckquean and cuckold fantasies are a fetish that most swinger couples understand and in fact share these similar interest. If a man dreams of his wife being with another man while he watches and the woman gets excited by the idea, things tend to go a lot smoother. However, it is important to enter into such relationships with defined rules in place.

2. Spice Up the Relationship

Play time can become a bit mundane after a long time together in a monogamous relationship. But it doesn’t have to be that way! The cuckquean dynamic can add excitement and spice to anyone’s partnership—even if your sex life is already pretty amazing. The cuckold gets to see his lover’s pleasure from another angle, allowing him to witness intimacy in an entirely new way. The results can lead to greater willingness to explore new things between the sheets.

3. Cuckqueans Keep Their Men Happy and Satisfied

Sometimes a men is unable to meet the sexual needs of his partner and this could be due to any number of reasons. Some women just want a more fulfilled sex life and entering into a cuckquean arrangement can ensure sexual satisfaction while allowing her to do so without guilt. These types of relationships start in a number of ways, but they can be satisfying for everyone involved.

4. Avoiding Cheating in Partnerships

Cheating can kill a relationship and couples of the lifestyle frown on anyone who enters the lifestyle to cheat on their partner. The lifestyle is best experienced by couples who share a strong bond and indulge in open and honest communications. The lifestyle is not the place to fix broken relationships. When you willingly enter into a cuckquean relationship, there is no reason to feel betrayed or experience hurt feelings as the experience is being shared by both.

Now That You Know…

With so many positive aspects of living a cuckqueans lifestyle, why not forge ahead and give it a try? Just remember to discuss it with your partner and have firm rules in place before delving into new directions in the swingers lifestyle.

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While many people are aware that the swingers lifestyle involves couples engaging romantically with others outside of their primary partner, many don’t understand what swingers are really all about. Here, we’ll share a few of the lesser known facts about the lifestyle that many don’t know.

1. There are Likely More People Into Swinging Than You Think

The loving act of swinging is still somewhat underground in the mainstream and is often misguidedly considered taboo. Even though the practice is thought of as taboo to many, it’s more common than one might think. Evidence from Psychology Today suggests that 1 couple in 25 participate in consensual non-monogamy, which equates to around 4% of the population.

2. The Majority of Swingers are Everyday People

People not familiar with the swingers lifestyle tend to imagine swingers as being a certain ‘type,’ which often ranges from being oversexed to manipulative or into sadomasochism. However, it’s likely you’ve seen someone at a PTA meeting or the grocery store who’s a swinger. Swingers come from all walks of life, including nurses, policemen, doctors, and such. They don’t wear a red flag or carry a sign advertising their sex life, but rest assured, swingers are just like everyone else!

3. Swinging Isn’t Cheating

Those in the swingers lifestyle make agreements and have set rules, so their goal is not to cheat. Rather, they have permission to engage in certain activities. In fact, most swingers aspire to strengthen an already healthy relationship, not cheat. Swingers prioritize open-mindedness and are looking to enhance current relationships, not replace their current mate.

4. Swinging Doesn’t ‘Fix’ Troubled Relationships

Swinging is highly unlikely to fix a troubled relationship, which is a main mistake made by newbies. Couples with deep-rooted issues are more likely to make things worse by attempting to play with others. To boot, other swingers seem to have a keen ability to spot ‘troubled’ couples at parties, clubs, lifestyle resorts and on lifestyle cruises. The lifestyle is best entered by those with a strong, loving relationship.

5. The Lifestyle Can Help Balance Gender Roles in Partnerships

While there is a perception that either the man or the woman leads the way and sets the rules in swinging relationships, that is not the case—even in sub/dom partnerships. In general, swinging can essentially create a better sense of balance to the power dynamic between partners. When both have the freedom to express their deepest desires and communicate them to their mate, a greater sense of gender equality can be enjoyed in the relationship.

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Swingers lifestyle relationships have historically been considered taboo. However, there are quite a few couples who find that the swingers lifestyle has been more beneficial than harmful to their union.

Not everyone is cut out for monogamy, so when like minded couples hook up and decide to share their love with others they often discover greater heights of pleasure that allows them to remain together in a healthy partnership. Let’s explore more about healthy relationships in the world of swinging.

Swinging in a Jealousy Free Relationship

The most pertinent aspect of the swingers lifestyle is to eradicate jealousy in all forms. While it seems that fear of losing the one you love is normal, couples who don’t feel the need to keep partners all to themselves actually have a better chance of maintaining a solid connection with a primary mate. Couples who embrace monogamy seem to have a tendency to feel like their golden days are gone and they can feel ‘trapped’—which isn’t a bonus in any relationship.

Having a ‘live and let live’ mentality can actually be more grounding for those in swinging relationships. The down low according to an array of mental health professionals is that monogamous couples have a tendency to be more judgmental about sex while swinging couples are predominantly more committed and satisfied compared to their vanilla peers.

Healthy Relationships in Swinging Require Rules

Just because we love to share the one we love doesn’t mean that we don’t have a set of rules that must be followed. It takes a lot of trust to be successful in polyamorous or swinging heathly relationships, so any limitations must be defined in advance. This means that sneaking around for rendezvous, looking up potential playmates or apps, etc. is out of the question without permission from your main squeeze.

Stay Protected and Get Tested

Even if you and your swinging buddies do their best to stay free of sexually transmitted diseases, you can only be responsible for yourself. Sh*t happens, so getting routinely tested for STDs can ensure the safety that you want to honor your body with. Even when using protection, incidents can occur and sex toys might be contaminated in the heat of the moment. Stay clean and well with a combination of protection and wellness checkups that make all partners feel more at ease during engagements.

Excitement…What’s Healthier Than That?

Many monogamous couples don’t last for a lifetime simply due to boredom in the bedroom. Those who opt to participate in the swingers lifestyle tend to stay together longer and stronger than vanilla couples. Whether you delve into soft swaps, hard swaps, BDSM, hot wifing or just testing the waters out with sexy chats, it’s likely to spice up things in the bedroom and bring you closer together.

In closing, are swinging relationships healthy? It’s going to depend on how you approach it to determine that answer. Be responsible, kind, respectful and keep it clean to see where it goes!

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Whether you’re in the swingers lifestyle or not, you’ve likely heard about friends with benefits. You’re also certainly familiar with the term ‘fuck buddies’ as you probably have a few of those amid your swinging circles.

While they both involve sex, they differ in that swinger lifestyle friends with benefits involve partners involved in a mutual friendship. These are real friends who find each other attractive and take their relationship into the bedroom, but don’t go further than remaining ‘friends’ who have sex.

Fuck buddies are simply people you hook up with and have no other real outside connection beyond sex. To maintain a friendship and enjoy sexual perks, you’ll want to keep these rules in mind to succeed and avoid problems down the line.

Rule #1: Be Prepared for Emotional Complexities

Friends with benefits (FWBs) can become complex if you get too involved. Take advantage of the best part of a relationship—the sex—without dealing with all the hassles of everyday life like bills and such. If you can’t compartmentalize the difference between your friend and sometimes lover, you might not be cut out for these arrangements.

Rule #2: No Dating Allowed

Swingers often go out on dates with their playmates, but typically as a precursor to dessert—hooking up. However, this might not be true in a committed swinger lifestyle relationship. In a FWB arrangement, members of the couple don’t go out on dates alone with their FWB play partner, as those are associated primarily with singles seeking a deeper romantic relationship.

Rule #3. Avoid Starting Up a FWB Situation with Long Time Friends

You don’t want to risk sacrificing a long-term friendship by getting involved sexually. The best FWB situations stem from friends you’ve recently connected with that shares the feeling of mutual attraction with you. In this sense, you might want to avoid meeting this new person’s friends, who might not be down with their outside swinging fun sessions with you.

Rule #4. Don’t Fall in Love

There is a high chance that one or both of you will be tempted to catch feelings at times, and this is entirely normal. However, allowing these feelings to grow and blossom drastically changes the landscape of a friends with benefits situation. This can create drama and ruin the arrangement unless both of you are feeling the same way and opt to transition into a full fledged relationship.

Rule #5: Don’t Text—Sext!

Be straight and to the point with your FWB partner. Don’t get too mushy when sex is on the agenda, but be direct with a text with statements like, “Are you ready for me?” or “My place or yours?” to avoid confusion about your intentions.

Rule #6: Jealousy is Not Allowed

Whether it’s you, your FWB or perhaps even your main squeeze there’s no room for jealousy in these relationships. Your goal is simply to satisfy yours and their sexual cravings, but that doesn’t mean you can’t meet new people or have other FWB set ups with others.

Stick with these rules and you should be well prepared to embark on a FWB relationship without all the fuss that comes with full-time partnerships.

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There are numerous reasons why a couple might find themselves caught up in a sexless marriage or a sexless relationship with a significant other. The diminishment of sexual engagement could be the result of boredom in the bedroom, sexual dysfunction, or due to a disconnect in the relationship itself.

However, more and more psychological experts and sex therapists are helping couples open up to considering an alternative lifestyle like swinging to help them transform their relationship—in and out of the bedroom.

Essentially, swinging is a form of consensual non-monogamy relationship that can bring couples closer together by fostering trust, inciting excitement and through seeing the other partner happy in cases of sexual dissatisfaction. Those who have found themselves stuck in tepid or sexless relationships should read on to discover how the lifestyle can help resurge those flaming passions.

Voyeurism Builds Excitement

Voyeurism is a mild way to participate in an alternative lifestyle that can help restore desire between partners without having to engage with others intimately. Voyeurism is the act of watching each other or others engage in sex or sexy actions.

These can include acts of self-pleasure, strip teases, watching sexy people on the beach, heading to a voyeur club or by viewing porn together. Watching others or each other without the pressure of having sex can actually be more exciting than sex itself—especially for those out of practice or who’ve lost interest.

The Exhilaration of Exhibitionism

Sexless relationships often just need a bit of newness tossed in. Couples doing something bold and daring that is far outside their norm—and maybe even their comfort zone—can be rather exhilarating, and flowing endorphins can lead to sexual arousal. Exhibitionism literally puts couples in sexless relationships or a sexless marriage into the spotlight for other voyeurs.

The aim of exhibitionism is to allow others to view your intimate moments, which may be sexual or not. This could be walking naked on the beach, taking the stage at a swingers club, or planning a trip to a nudist colony. Just the sheer exhilaration of being ‘seen’ can bring the vigor and arousal back to the bedroom once you get home. And don’t forget, you can be exhibitionists for each other in private, too!

Soft Swapping & Full Swaps to Turn on the Heat

Want to go all in for something a bit more intense than seeing others or being seen to heat things up in the sack? Those just entering the lifestyle to get their groove back tend to start with a soft swap where there is only petting, kissing and fondling but no sex. If there is one partner more reluctant to sex than the other than the obvious participant would likely start with the ‘ready to go’ partner with a soft swap.

Ready to go all the way or allow a partner that’s in need in sex to get that satisfaction? A full swap means penetrative sex with a consensual party outside the relationship. Sometimes just seeing a lover with another is enough to make a partner realize how good they have it. Sometimes they just get so turned on they can’t help but want to make love more often again.

Threesomes and polyamory are good options for couples seeking to bring on a part-time or full-time fill in for their sexless marriage, but all situations are different.

All of these are great things to try amid the lifestyle that don’t have to involve full-time swinging or sex at all, so you have nothing to lose and everything to gain by thinking outside the box!

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Some adult profiles can seem inauthentic and determining which ones are real can prove a bit more challenging — particularly when it comes to adult personals in the swingers lifestyle.

However, with these easy tips, you can more easily spot if someone you’re considering for play is truly who they say they are with intentions that match up with your own.

Pay Attention to Swinger Profile Details

Take a close look at the sexual preferences, weight, height and other pertinent details in all the swingers personals you review. Those that are incomplete or seem too good to be true should fall under careful scrutiny.

Be leery of profiles that only talk about hooking up and sex—unless that’s what you’re into. High quality content in the profile such as hobbies, habits, family and doing ‘together’ activities is likely to lead to discovering more stable couples and individuals in the swingers community versus those looking to cheat or have a quick fling.

Swingers Profile Images: Evaluating and a Few Warning Signs

Pretty much every swingers website has a place for members to post public and private images that can be viewed by other members of the site. Pay attention to the images being shared in your public profile. Be sure to crop or blur out identifying features if privacy is a top concern.

When you view photos, see how well they match up with the swingers personals description provided. Most swingers website has image protection enabled so other members cannot be added to a lookie loo’s personal collection.

While it’s smart to be cautious doling out pics, couples should be cautious of others not willing to share any pics of their own or who insist on going off platform to an IM or email. If they refuse to talk or exchange emails and photos before meeting—just say “No, thanks!” and move onto to more realistic matches. Those who don’t show themselves might simply have something to hide.

Use Swingers Websites Certification As A Guide

Not all sites have a certification process that helps verify a couple or single as being a ‘real’ swinger. Certs aren’t just indicators of proven sexcapades, but they are a good way to let other members know you’re serious about the lifestyle.

It’s a definite bonus if people you’re considering hooking up with have a few well written letters from other swingers they’ve met or have connections with other lifestyle groups to add to their merit.

The most important thing in evaluating a swingers profile is to be sure they are a good match for you and your desires. Take time to make a connection through video chats, emails and phone calls before meeting up in person. Try not to share too much information about yourself or your family until you know your play partner(s) a little better.

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The concept of mastering orgasm control has mystified men for centuries, just as many women have chased the dream of having them upon command. However, how does one achieve this goal? Can it be done alone or only with a partner?

We’ll answer these burning questions and much while discussing the art of edging, which is the sexual practice of metaphorically taking yourself to the ‘edge’ of orgasms before allowing yourself to climax.

Why do this? Well, here are three reasons to give edging—aka peaking or surfing—a try.

1. Learn to Achieve Orgasms When You Most Desire

Women achieve orgasm when masturbating well over 90% of the time, and learning to hold back on allowing themselves to get to that magical point can actually give them greater control over the ability to have them whenever they desire.

One need not be swinging or even involved in the lifestyle—or even have a partner for that matter—to take advantage of this benefit of edging. Men, on the other hand, can use this technique to prolong orgasms. This is not only to provide greater pleasure to partners, but it will ultimately give him more intense feelings during each sexual practice.

2. Boost Body Confidence and Awareness for Greater Sexual Satisfaction

Sexual dysfunction is becoming more common in men and women of all ages for an array of reasons, and this isn’t limited to those in the swingers lifestyle. Many women and men feel extremely uncomfortable talking with partners or physicians about sexual issues, but through edging with partners or with yourself, you can become more confident in discussing sex.

Sound crazy? In a way, it is simply psychological, but edging can help you better understand yourself in ways that will ensure a healthier sex life filled with greater pleasure.

You need not be involved in the lifestyle or swinging at all to enjoy the perks of adopting this sexual practice into your solo, partner or group routines. Regardless of results, you’re sure to find the experience of delayed orgasm somewhat succulent.

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